We are deeply in love with Catalina: 100% of the time
Catalina is sweet and loving: 80% of the time
Catalina screams and hits everything around her: 20% of the time
Catalina is stubborn and doesn't stop until she gets her way: 50% of the time
Catalina knows how to manipulate mommy and daddy: 100% of the time.
Catalina is the most complete, clever, beautiful inside out girl: 100% of the time
Catalina is the EXACT girl we want as our daughter: 100% of the time
Catalina is the EXACT girl we want as our daughter: 100% of the time
With this in mind, let's unfold the events of our past weekend.
On Saturday we were headed to the apple festival at a farm close by. Last year's event was nice and relaxing and we were hoping for the same thing this year. We started the day nicely, with an amazing breakfast. The problems started when we asked Catalina to get dressed to go to the farm. Nothing pleased her. No, she doesn't want socks. No, she doesn't want shoes. The pants are too tight. The shirt is not soft enough. We changed socks, shoes, pants and tops at least 3 times each. At the end of our wits, we took her screaming in the car hoping she will calm down in time. First stop was at mommy's work place. Catalina LOVES visiting mommy at work, but since she was screaming she didn't get to visit with mommy. This lead to even more screaming. Luckily enough this tired her and calmed her down. Also, we told her that she will be punished and she will not be allowed to watch her favorite Barney video until Monday. This didn't seem to register to her and we just let it be. By the time mommy finished work, Catalina was in a better mood. We headed to the farm and we had a decent time, barely hearing our thoughts after so much screaming. We played with yellow and red and brown leaves. Catalina loved it. We ate apples dipped in caramel sauce and tried a corn maze.
Towards the end of our farm visit, Catalina realized that agreeing with mommy and daddy makes for more fun, so she actually took the jacket on (after many many tries...)
Exhausted by Catalina's demands and also a little sad that she was in such distress for most of the day, we decided that we'll spend Sunday inside and let her be naked if that was what she wanted. We did stood our grounds and she was not allowed to watch Barney Saturday morning.
And Sunday came with the surprise! Catalina woke up in the best mood ever. She ate breakfast without complaining, she played nicely with her toys. Encouraged by this, we asked her if she wants to go to the park play with fallen leaves. We also mentioned she needs to get socks, shoes, pants and a top if she wants it. We were almost in shock when she agreed to EVERYTHING. We went to the park, ran around, played in the sandbox, climbed trees. When I asked her if she want to eat smth she just took the banana without complaints. When it got colder she took the jacket immediately.
It was a wonderful Sunday. Beautiful weather, and a very happy family. We started headed home, the car was warm and very quite. In this peaceful atmosphere, Catalina started talking, apparently to nobody: "So, I kept my socks on, and I kept my shoes on, and I took the jacket. I ate a banana. Now I can have Barney again".
Mommy and daddy were in shock. She did all that on purpose! She was nice just to win back her favorite character. And she is only 2 and a half.
We do expect a very difficult and entertaining time when she'll be a teenager. I can honestly say (and I know I talk for Marius also) that we never, in our wildest and most beautiful dreams, did we ever thought we'll have so so much fun raising a little papadia, that our lives will get flooded with so much happiness, just by watching her grow day by day.
















































